Hello my favorite readers,
I am here to share my thoughts and thank you for taking your time to read my blog anyways.
Last few days, I encountered many experiences in life - the good and the bad. The good ones made smile and laugh. The bad ones made me frown and laugh. Oh why laugh? Because I was trying to think the funny reason that made me sad. And that's my #1 tip to stay happy. Think about something funny or well an insight beyond the bad times. It works, for me at least.
The #2 for keeping happy is to knowing yourself. By knowing yourself, you also know your limits, know your boundaries, know everything about you. I know my capacity when it comes to dry jokes or to bad times yeah. And I always think I can't control the external factors that make me sad, so that I try to make a boundary.
#3, don't let people know your emotions that you're being sad or something. That makes it worse. Why? Because first you are sad and second you're making someone bored/sad also by telling them your sadness.
And last, stay with the positive people who is being real to you. Well, we don't know which one is the real one until we lose them. I've lose some people in my life and I don't complain or try to get back to them, because I already knew who's worth to be kept and not. Remember, stay with the positive ones who are being real to you.
Now you know how I can keep being happy in my down time. They are not always easy to be implemented in life I know, but I know the tips are working. You gotta try though. Stay happy and lovely :)
Good morning, my favorite readers
It's by a chance I am writing this. Have you felt so distracted when you need to focus on something you're working on? Either it's external distraction or internal one. If yes, then welcome and you're not alone :)
This is a serious problem I think. When we need to fix something, then a text message comes up and we are distracted and we lost our focus and ciao the thoughts are just about to go nowhere. Haha it's not just you.
So, my simple actions to deal with this:
1. Turn off the phone or put it away somewhere down the desk
2. Write down the to do 's
3. Go somewhere quiet (maybe restroom) and breathe. So many introverts need this to get away from the external distractions
4. Control your mind. Thus this is the hardest part - for me
I'm not super perfect of handling this distractions problem, because sometimes my wandering mind is too hard to be controlled. But hey, at least we are doing to handle this. Practice makes perfect. We can do that. Happy weekend. Ciao ciao :)
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Good morning, not so early birds!
I'd like to share some kind of tips. In a good and bad ways haha. Hope you enjoy. So here you go :3
1. When the communication between you and your partner is like a way way terrible kind of communication, I say run baby run. Move on, it won't survive unless your partner can change. But you can't change anyone remember.
2. When your partner never understand you but demand to be understood all the time, then you need to decide to pack up and go. Look, you're not a doormat. You deserve an equality in any kind of relationships.
3. When your partner is lying or cheating on you, then finish it right now. Like right away please, don't give a second thought. Once someone is a cheater, they'll be a cheater forever. You deserve someone who knows how to take care of you emotionally and mentally and physically.
4. When your partner is a man child then I'd say go find someone else who's in the same page of life. It's not point if keeping one who doesn't wanna grow. Well unless you don't wanna grow yourself also.
5. When your partner never trust you, then talk about it to your partner. If your partner still can't trust you and behaves in a real wrong way toward you, I'd say get over it. You know, you need to invest your time for the right people only. That doesn't mean you are a bad person, no, it's your right to decide which way you wanna go in life.
I've met some people in my life who suffer from their relationship. They cried a lot cos of their partner. And I was trying to convince them to chin up. Life is not just about relationship between you and your gf or bf. Recall your relationship with your mom or your dad or your sister or your brother or your friends or your colleagues, why don't your cherish them? They make you smile or laugh more right? Stay happy and lovely. If you think no one loves you, well I am here ready to love you as a real friend. Happy weekend :)
